Be Kind, Be Patient

You may have seen that internet meme bouncing around on social media, above? This post is essentially about how this advice may be more important than other things we spend much longer talking and worrying about. I’ve been caused over the years to read a lot of books that have been pushed in my direction, in lieu of any proper training on what I do – professionals wanting me to know more about the ‘medical model’ and ‘psychological approaches’, even sociology and philosophy. I also catch snippets of CPD designed for AMHPs and mental health nurses, when I’ve been waiting to give presentations to them, or when I’ve been hanging around afterwards. In the course of doing my job, I’ve received hundreds if not thousands of emails and social media contacts over the years from patients, their families or carers about police training on mental health related matters.

“The police need more training on [insert diagnostic label of your choice]” is common. Calls for training seem to be the number one recommendation of various reports and complaints which examine where things have gone awry and training, I do agree, is important. This stuff is an area of policing which touches up against complex intellectual disciplines with many diagnostic criteria, psychopharmacology other words we can’t spell as well as awkward legal structures. I can agree we need at least some training on this, without any pretence at all that we could or should build half a mental health nurse in uniform. But at the core of this feedback is something rather simpler and much more easy to contemplate. And quite beautifully, it tends to come from those of us who have actually lived through some of this stuff or are still doing so.

There are lots of conflicts and tensions in policing and in the demands we face: some people have called for condition-specific training on certain mental disorders or groups of disorders. Given we couldn’t realistically give specific training on all discrete disorders or even categories of disorders, are some mental health conditions more important than others? – should that decision on where to focus the training be based on the frequency of encounters we have or upon the extent of difference the condition makes to how we should police? Do we target the more common conditions or understand the more complex issues, however rarely encountered? Are peri-natal mental health issues more or less important that obsessive compulsive disorder; is autism more or less important than schizophrenia where these issues are competing for time amidst a training schedule? If all four of these must go ‘in’, what remains ‘out’?!

Perhaps we had better ask people who are ‘policed’ what they actually want from their police?! –

DOES IT MATTER?

No matter the books I read, the people I talk to, the research I hear about at conferences, all things point to the same conclusion, in my view: the public just want the police to be as kind and patient as possible, even in the face of various kinds of frustrations. I don’t get emails saying that the custody officer had correctly identified someone as having bipolar disorder; but I do get them where we just knew that something wasn’t quite right and the custody officer was extremely kind and took time to explain things and reassure a person. I don’t hear stories of officers showing a depth of insight in to these issues but I get plenty praising their patience, the decency and their humanity.

When we were putting together the College of Policing APP on mental health, numerous people asked us about training to accompany it and worried out loud that by training, or even over-training, police officers on the multitude of different mental health conditions, we would strip away that which was most essential, from a service-user’s point of view: simple caring humanity. People don’t want diagnosticians in uniform or someone who can necessarily ‘fix’ them; they want to be treated with courtesy and respect, as an individual who can help them in the short-term. Help might not even necessarily mean helping achieve immediate access to NHS professionals; it might just been giving time to stay with someone whilst a crisis subsides.

A patient at a Crisis Care Concordat event once sought me out after a talk to make sure we didn’t over-train the police out of their lay-person, decent-human-being backgrounds and make them think they’ve become quasi-clinicians. She feared this would remove everything she wanted and needed from a police response. One of her experiences had been officers meeting her in acute distress and sitting on the kerb with her for over half an hour or so whilst another police officer was just along from them, talking on the radio, trying to get information, support and then eventually, an ambulance to attend. It all took so long that by the time the officer rejoined them, the patient felt relatively fine – the crisis had blown over – and she trusted them enough to let them know of a friend she’d be able to talk to and stay with. Officers who were thinking of whether to take her to A&E or use s136 were then reassured enough via the friend’s willingness to help, to do neither of these things. Each were ‘pathways’ the person was keen to avoid and MH services followed her up the following day.

RISK ASSESSMENT SCALES

This week, whilst waiting to deliver a talk to a group of AMHPs, I heard a presentation by an academic about the use of risk assessment scales for people who have hurt themselves deliberately. Read the papers about this for yourself, if you wish, but it turns out these things have been thoroughly tested and are not as reliable as simply asking the person themselves; and not as reliable as the instinctive opinion of the clinician caring for that person. They are often used to determine whether patients should be considered low, medium or high risk and that grading influences other issues on everything form whether to ensure a higher intensity of support in the community or to call for a Mental Health Act assessment. That’s a lot of resource to expend if the tools used to form the risk-rating are wrong more often than they’re right!

Also referenced within the presentation was the number of psycho-social assessments that are undertaken on patients who presented in EDs after self-harm – it has been in the NICE Guidelines for sometime that good clinical practice is to ensure such assessment on all patients and the last time I heard the percentage figure, it was around 40%. It’s apparently now risen to just over a half of all patients, but this is thought to have more of a positive, protective value than structures wrapped around patients after the use of risk assessments scales (which are wrong more often that they’re right).

Of course, despite the clinical sounding term ‘psychosocial assessment’, this is mainly a matter of listening to people and taking them seriously around their difficulties and helping identify ways of supporting them on their own terms (as it has been explained to me). The presentation just kept coming back to that point: be nice to people, be patient with them and listen to their stories.

FIGHTING A BATTLE

Most police officers, when they encounter someone in distress, are meeting someone they haven’t met before. Many police areas have a small number of individuals who are known to have complex mental health and social problems who repeatedly present to the police and other emergency services; most police forces examine ‘repeat’ s136 detentions or those well-known to police, mental health and social services, but in the main, those we encounter are not individually known to each officer.  So firstly, this raises the importance of ensuring officers have timely access to relevant information from both the police service (other officers may have encountered this person before) and from partner organisations (most people the police encounter are known, currently or recently, to mental health services).

Academics have written about the relationship between trauma, abuse and experiences of serious and enduring mental health problems in adults . Seventy-five percent of all mental health problems begin during childhood so when meeting someone in acute mental distress in circumstances where there is considerable risk to that person, officers are potentially walking in to years or even decades worth of difficulty that may have already proven challenging to even the most qualified of mental health and social care professionals. The likelihood that officers can ‘fix’ the person is limited and fortunately, that’s not what patients I’ve spoken to actually want.  They have a very limited set of requirements that bodes well across all policing encounters we ever have, whether related to mental health crisis or not.

Couldn’t we all do this?! –

  • Be kind – you’ve got no idea what I went through to get here and meet you.
  • Be patient – don’t rush me because you need to get to the next job.
  • I was probably scared before you turned up and I don’t know you as a person any more than you know me – you are initially a person in uniform and that can be frightening until I can get a sense of the person behind that uniform.
  • Tell me your name – the “#hellomynameis Michael” bit, not the “I’m Inspector Brown!” bit.
  • Listen to what I’m saying – it might give you good clues as to how you can help me best and all people are different.
  • Try to accommodate any requirements I seem to have, if you can – the gender of the officer(s) might be important to me; who gets contacted about me; how I’m transported or to where …
  • Don’t use jargon – section 136 and AWOL, etc..
  • Don’t assume mental health services are the answer – you don’t know me and that might be a problematic part of my history.
  • Problems with the system are not my fault – some police officers leak their frustrations and it can make people feel like they’re being blamed because a CrisisTeam didn’t help, for example.
  • Turn down the radios, turn off the blue lights, if you can – and if you can’t, just trying explaining that to me.
  • Only bring as many officers as you need – I don’t want too many people staring at me unnecessarily.
  • Don’t shout at me – you don’t know how many voices are already screaming at me or how shouting can overload my sensory system.
  • Ensure my dignity, as far as you can – that will mean an awful lot.
  • Try not to restrain me, even if that means we have to spend a bit more time for me to trust you – if you can make me think you are actually seeing me as a person and trying to help, I may be able to trust you.
  • Don’t lie to me – ruins everything and the short-term gain may mean I never, ever trust the police again and you make it harder for your colleagues if there is a ‘next time’.
  • If I was stood on a high-building, you’d do all of this without question – what difference does it make if I’m just in the park, on a bench?

Nothing exceptional here, is there?! – it’s what I’d want from the police no matter what job they went to. I know most of us do this anyway – I haven’t written this post because I sense that we usually get this wrong! A reminder of what the public say isn’t going to do any harm and there may be some officers (or for that matter, paramedics, mental health professionals or other NHS staff who hadn’t thought of some of these things) who might think of doing some things differently in future.

Policing is not about us: it’s about the people we meet and some of them are fighting battles you know nothing about and have been for years. Be kind, be patient – and let them be in charge as much as you possibly can.


IMG_0053IMG_0052Winner of the President’s Medal from
the Royal College of Psychiatrists.

Winner of the Mind Digital Media Award.


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8 thoughts on “Be Kind, Be Patient

  1. The police training course on MH was good when I myself was on it. I was on the course at the time my daughter was multiply abused under a local scheme in the community and her adverse behaviour was put down to “Illness” warranting increased amounts of psychiatric drugs when all along professionals knew something had happened. Police did not bother to investigate and question those concerned properly, one of whom appealed against eviction and all they did eventually was to move her up a floor. Everything captured on cctv yet police could not find the cctv – what needs to be improved is the way police interview and investigate serious cases of abuse. It is all too easy to try and brush things under the carpet but last year my daughter came back well from care we provided privately from Australia – she started to talk – so the drugs were given to silence her from talking about what happened to her. The police failed to investigate and the attitude is all about that she would not make a reliable witness in court. My daughter’s adverse behaviour is as a result of trauma – ptsd. It is an insult to say she has a personality disorder and no way can I accept paranoid schizophrenia – my daughter was terrified to go back to that scheme in the community so she acted in a way guaranteed to result in hospital admission as she did not feel safe there . Police should pass the interviewing of victims of serious abuse over to specialists who are used to dealing with people with say aspergers LD and specialist counsellors of abuse. All these years bottled up and masked by huge quantities of drugs – police should not be involved in interviewing abuse victims but should work along specialist counsellors so that vulnerable people get proper therapy not increased drugs to cover things up so they want talk about it or police brush matters aside as they can’t be bothered to do a proper investigation.

    1. Please accept my heartfelt sympathies with your situation.
      I am angry on your behalf.
      I have had to ‘battle’ with ‘our NHS’ over very many years.
      However, allow me to congratulate you for doing the best for your daughter. May you all have the happy future that you deserve and by telling your story, spotlighting a totally unacceptable situation.

  2. Excellent piece. Advice based on compassion and respect and the principles of it valid for all of us, not just police officers.

  3. Thank you for this post.
    Few could argue that the straightforward ‘patience and kindness’ can be applied universally with few side effects. It’s an invaluable recommendation to those diligent souls who worry that they should be doing more.
    However, with the incompetent reduction in frontline personnel in all of the important jobs in all of our institutions, plus the pressure for political box-ticking, P.R. stunts and more, there is a danger that the advice to be patient and kind could be experienced as yet another pressure from above. In other words, if I was a busy frontline officer and my superior advised me to be patient and kind, I would have great difficulty in not giving them a quick tasering.
    I might also add, I wonder how happy management would be in translating lengthy engagement with troubled souls, however successful the outcome, when they are asked to show evidence of productivity? Plus, however skilled de-escalating such scenarios are, do they lead to promotion?
    Also, I imagine many officers joined the service to run down criminals and would have been trained as such. To then ask them to hurl themselves to the other end of our human spectrum and deal with the vulnerable and confused is asking a hell of a lot.
    I have a horrible feeling that all of our institutions are becoming increasingly corrupted. It’s the natural cycle of all things. I took a look at Psychiatric Abuse UK’s site – I wish it could have shocked and appalled me. It’s becoming evident that far worse crimes are committed within our institutions than elsewhere. Many convicted criminals would not allow such suffering as occurs, for instance, in some of our ‘care homes.’ But, as the power players run these, or supervise them, and are perennially rewarded however incompetent and money-grabbing, the situation can only deteriorate. I’d love to see the justice system seriously tackle this issue instead of co-operating and facilitating. But, it’s all about power and control. And the vulnerable don’t have any, and the monsters do.
    Anyone, in any of our institutions who is trying to do their very best, with the odds stacked so heavily against them, deserves our support and more.

  4. I can do no further than completely agree with this post. It seems to be a blanket approach to any mental health incident that goes wrong…. More training for the Police as if this ticks a box rather than dealing with the hard to do system stuff that sits behind it.

    Its about the mindset and officers being in the moment when they deal with the incident. Be kind, patient and in the moment rather than thinking about your workload, that enquiry you were supposed to be at, the other jobs stacking etc.

    As a local MH lead I also get positive examples that link mainly to how they communicated and treated a person. Perhaps the better training / changes are how to deal with compassion fatigue in the emergency services.

  5. Was the Academic speaking about self harm Dr. Nav Kapor by any chance? I recently heard him speak on this issue and its link to suicide and it was eye opening. Perhaps he could be considered as a Guest blogger at some point.
    In regards to acting with kindness and patience? Yes, yes, yes!

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